Not a Vacation

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This article is great!

Chronicle illnesses are horrible & not being able to work doesn’t mean we’re at home, chillin’ on vacay.

https://themighty.com/2017/06/being-unable-to-work-with-chronic-illness-is-not-a-vacation/

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Integrity

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Definition of integrity

  1. 1:  firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values :incorruptibility

  2. 2:  an unimpaired condition :soundness

  3. 3:  the quality or state of being complete or undivided :completeness

    Source: Merriam-Webster

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“Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.” – W. Clement Stone

“Goodness is about character – integrity, honesty, kindness, generosity, moral courage, and the like. More than anything else, it is about how we treat other people.” – Dennis Prager

“The foundation stones for a balanced success are honesty, character, integrity, faith, love and loyalty.” – Zig Ziglar

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Straightforward People

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Amen!
I dont have the time, the energy, the patience for any bull anymore.
I need REAL, genuine people in my life. Straight shooters.

I can’t handle the drama. I need my chaotic life to be as simplified as possible. Unfortunately, that means cutting ties sometimes.

As much as it hurts, I know it’s for the best. I know that for my own sanity & for the sanity of the people who TRULY love me, taking out the trash is a NECESSITY.

I’m choosing to select my company carefully. Guards are up to ensure the drama stays away.

I’m moving forward in hopes of creating a a life that will be easier on my heart, my mind, my body, & my soul.

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12 Steps to Self Care

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12 Steps to Self Care

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it.
2. Say exactly what you mean.
3. Don’t be a people pleaser.
4. Trust your instincts.
5. Never speak bad about yourself.
6. Never give up on your dreams.
7. Don’t be afraid to say, “no.”
8. Don’t be afraid to say, “yes.”
9. Be kind to yourself.
10. Let go of what you can’t control.
11. Stay away from drama & negativity.
12. Love.

Source: Positive Energy

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Being True to Yourself

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“I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to succeed, but I am bound to live by the light that I have. I must stand with anybody that stands right, and stand with him while he is right, and part with him when he goes wrong.” – Abraham Lincoln

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The Importance of Being True to Yourself
by Marissa Håkansson
December 8, 2011

“Being true to yourself is a life-long practice that requires commitment and re-commitment, moment to moment, as you grow and evolve. The answer to what is true for you always exists at the core of who you are, if you give yourself the space and time to listen.

When you are being true to yourself, you are completely honest with what you feel, deeply value, and desire. It also means communicating your feelings wholeheartedly both with yourself and others, allowing your truth to flow through you and into the world.

To know your truth fully and express it authentically, you first need to cultivate a deep and trusting relationship with yourself. Ultimately, this begins with awareness of your thoughts, as well as awareness of your whole-body experience and how you interact with the world each day.

You can expand your awareness and strengthen the connection with yourself through introspective practices such as meditation, yoga, and journal writing. These practices help you become more present and establish reference points to identify when you are (or are not) living in alignment with the deeper aspect of yourself. The more you practice, the easier it becomes to self-correct when you are out of alignment.

Understanding when you are in alignment or out of alignment may often be based on an intuitive feeling rather than a thought. Feelings of openness, expansion, inner joy and freedom are good signs that you are on the right path. Conversely, if you are not being true to yourself, it may show up through feelings of contraction and tension, unease, disconnection, resignation, emptiness, discontentment, or a lack of fulfillment.

By learning to pay attention to your deeper senses and feelings, and by cultivating greater awareness in your life, you can establish a strong connection to yourself and feel confident in knowing what is deeply true for you.

But what is true, also yearns to be expressed. So it is up to each of us to be courageous in bringing forth our own truth, expressing it fully and authentically in the world.”

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I don’t sugar coat or pretend to be anyone but myself. I was always given it straight forward & that’s what I know. So naturally, I’m a little baffled when those who created me don’t understand my “bluntness.”

I’ve haven’t kept it secret that I’m dealing with a lot lately…more than my normal chaos & things have been so incredibly difficult. I’m distancing myself from TOXIC people & relationships. Even though I know I’m doing what’s right, it doesn’t make this process any easier.

I’ve also kept zero secrets regarding my chronic & autoimmune ailments. The stress that I’ve been battling has taken a large toll on my body, my mind, & my heart.

It’s time for me to take my life back & be one hundred percent true to myself. It’s not an over night process, but I will absolutely get there.

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“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Skyscraper

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To say that this past week has rocked my world would be a vast understatement.

I received a phone call from someone I’ve adored, respected, & admired my entire life that turned into something I NEVER thought would happen. It was HELLACIOUS…to say the least.

At first, I was simply confused. But the more time I’ve had to sit here with this phone call repeating in my head, the worse things get. I see things clearer & clearer with every passing hour.

I was GREATLY disrespected. I was accused of falsehoods. I was belittled. I was laughed at. I was yelled at.

I had to speak to this person in a way I NEVER in a million years thought I’d ever do.

No one is responsible for my actions but myself. No one will yell at me like a child, NO ONE. I’m grown. No one will laugh at me while I’m in tears & think it’s okay.

And don’t EVER come at me thinking you’re gong to fight another person’s battle. All that came from that was me losing respect for both people involved & now, I don’t have a problem with just one person. I have problems with multiple people.

I won’t be broken down. I won’t be bullied. I’ll say goodbye forever before that happens.

There’s no coming back from the things I heard & the horrendous effects that situation took on my body.

Trust this though, it will NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN. You thought you could break me down but I’m rising like the skyscrapers.

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